Post by tchokoev on Dec 21, 2005 16:19:51 GMT -5
I apologize ahead of time for this long posting, but I feel as though I need to share this information regarding the Yahoo VOWS group site (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/VOWS_HomeownersVoices/)
One of the motto’s/mission of this site, which is posted on their home page is “Our mission is to share factual information.” Warning: this is not true! There is a file on the Yahoo site in which I was personally named by an individual who does not know me, has never met me, nor never spoken to me whether via email, phone, telegram, etc., that is full of false information. There were false accusations towards me, and also towards the Queens of the Springs (which I am a part of). After reading this file, I felt as though I had been personally attacked and I wanted to respond to defend myself and also ask this individual to please refrain from making any further attacks or false accusations against me or the Queens. Now, as on this website and the VOWS website, there are moderators, which I am in no way complaining about the existence of moderators on any site. The reason for me posting this here is because I feel that I am unable to post my feelings, thoughts, opinions and concerns on the Yahoo site as in the end when my message did finally get posted, it was revised and edited. I was truly surprised that my posting got edited by a moderator, especially after reading this one user’s comments on the Yahoo group about this website, “His [NFL Guy’s] site is totally censured... Posts will be deleted at will or modified. Don’t even waste your time looking there!” Well, in my opinion – the Yahoo site is even more censored than this site and the VOWS site combined, again, this is my opinion, not an attack on that site, the creators of that site, or the moderators of that site.
Here's what I submitted to be posted on that site (posts are reviewed by the moderators before they can actually be seen by everyone else):
“This is in response to the link that Mrs. Cara Campbell posted on this site with all the email correspondences she had between Peter and Lara Lee. I do not appreciate you accusing me of being offensive and personally attacking people on the VOWS website! You do not know me and have absolutely no justification in what you said!!! Those who do know me know that is not in my nature, nor something I would do!! By sending that email and posting it on this site you have just personally attacked me and I do not appreciate it nor will I stand for it!!! Please refrain from making any accusations against me in the future.
As for your accusation (again false) that the Queens postings about patting each other on our backs and how we must have gotten that from LaraLee -- again you are falsely accusing people based on what??? A Hunch? Have you not looked at the some of the posts on this site -- the one attached below in particular? Again, please refrain from personally attacking me or the Queens
From: "outoftimeworkinout" <mar1for1@...>
Date: Wed Dec 7, 2005 6:44 pm
Subject: So fed up
I am so fed up with these people on the other website attacking any one who asks questions. It sure makes it seem like there is a conspiracy over there. Especially all of the People who have to pat each other on the back over and over again. I bet once this all shakes out we will find some people who will have to answer for their actions and I hope it is soon.
Now here is what was actually posted after one of the moderators edited it:
“This is in response to the file that Mrs. Cara Campbell posted on this site with all the email correspondences she had between Peter and Lara Lee. I do not appreciate you accusing me of being offensive
and personally attacking people on the VOWS website!
THIS POST WAS MODERATORED BY A1BADAPPLE_2005. AS A MODERATOR I WILL NOT ALLOW ANYONE TO POST INFORMATION ABOUT ATTACKING ANYONE ELSE PERIOD. ALSO THIS SITE IS FOR RESIDENTS OF THE VILLIAGES OF WOODLAND SPRINGS ONLY. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM EMAIL ME DIRECTLY AND AS ALWAYS THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT.”
Well, I did contact this moderator via email inquiring for an explanation of his editing. Here is the response that I received:
kmt4573
I have reread the entire post. Cara was stating opinion about how she thinks or feels. You can not make everything said a personal attack. Quite frankly your attitude about the entire post seems very hostile. The very thing that we and many others are against not only from this Yahoo group but the VOWS website as well. You make the statement they do not know you, then it can not be a personal attack.
May I suggest if you have a problem with someone please address it to them directly. Cara is a great person and this issue probably can be cleared up with just talking with her. The comment about being a VOWS resident will apply to every post I have to Moderate.
Now, I have not sent any further reply to this moderator as of yet, although his reply makes no sense to me for the following reasons:
1. “Cara was stating opinion about how she thinks or feels.” By stating her opinion and how she thinks or feels in her statement in which she named me in particular by name, that is what was offensive and attacking me as a person. Voicing thoughts can also be offensive and personal attacks, even if it is just her opinion of how she thinks…
2. “You can not make everything said a personal attack.” I wasn’t making everything she said a personal attack – only the 2 items that I specified in my original posting.
3. “Quite frankly your attitude about the entire post seems very hostile.” I was not hostile then, nor am I now – I was simply defending myself, the Queens and asking her to refrain from making any further false accusations. Also, does this moderator realize that typing in all capitals is considered yelling, and that I consider a bit of a hostile attitude.
4. “You make the statement they do not know you, then it can not be a personal attack.” You do not need to know someone personally to attack them or their nature. All the reporters in the world who write articles about stars and make up stories about them, do you think they personally know these stars?? No, but it still is a personal attack on that individual, as were Cara’s statements about me as they were attacking me as a person and my nature.
5. “May I suggest if you have a problem with someone please address it to them directly.” Why is this advice being given to me?? Shouldn’t it have gone to Cara first? She has never come to me with the apparent problem she has towards me…Was her posting edited as much as mine? No, her’s was not edited at all, yet, in my opinion, is much more hostile and is full of false accusations.
Again, I apologize for posting a small novel, but I wanted to post my opinions, thoughts and feelings on a VOWS site that is not “totally censored” and people are able to speak openly (with reasonable moderation). Even though I am only voicing my opinions here just as (to quote the Yahoo moderator again) “Cara was stating opinion about how she thinks or feels” I am pretty confident that this posting would be thoroughly edited if submitted to be posted on the Yahoo site considering it has much more information in it than the first one.
If you sat and read through this whole schpeel (is that how that’s spelled???), I hope I didn’t totally bore you, but I do thank you for listening to me with, hopefully, an open and fair mind.
One of the motto’s/mission of this site, which is posted on their home page is “Our mission is to share factual information.” Warning: this is not true! There is a file on the Yahoo site in which I was personally named by an individual who does not know me, has never met me, nor never spoken to me whether via email, phone, telegram, etc., that is full of false information. There were false accusations towards me, and also towards the Queens of the Springs (which I am a part of). After reading this file, I felt as though I had been personally attacked and I wanted to respond to defend myself and also ask this individual to please refrain from making any further attacks or false accusations against me or the Queens. Now, as on this website and the VOWS website, there are moderators, which I am in no way complaining about the existence of moderators on any site. The reason for me posting this here is because I feel that I am unable to post my feelings, thoughts, opinions and concerns on the Yahoo site as in the end when my message did finally get posted, it was revised and edited. I was truly surprised that my posting got edited by a moderator, especially after reading this one user’s comments on the Yahoo group about this website, “His [NFL Guy’s] site is totally censured... Posts will be deleted at will or modified. Don’t even waste your time looking there!” Well, in my opinion – the Yahoo site is even more censored than this site and the VOWS site combined, again, this is my opinion, not an attack on that site, the creators of that site, or the moderators of that site.
Here's what I submitted to be posted on that site (posts are reviewed by the moderators before they can actually be seen by everyone else):
“This is in response to the link that Mrs. Cara Campbell posted on this site with all the email correspondences she had between Peter and Lara Lee. I do not appreciate you accusing me of being offensive and personally attacking people on the VOWS website! You do not know me and have absolutely no justification in what you said!!! Those who do know me know that is not in my nature, nor something I would do!! By sending that email and posting it on this site you have just personally attacked me and I do not appreciate it nor will I stand for it!!! Please refrain from making any accusations against me in the future.
As for your accusation (again false) that the Queens postings about patting each other on our backs and how we must have gotten that from LaraLee -- again you are falsely accusing people based on what??? A Hunch? Have you not looked at the some of the posts on this site -- the one attached below in particular? Again, please refrain from personally attacking me or the Queens
From: "outoftimeworkinout" <mar1for1@...>
Date: Wed Dec 7, 2005 6:44 pm
Subject: So fed up
I am so fed up with these people on the other website attacking any one who asks questions. It sure makes it seem like there is a conspiracy over there. Especially all of the People who have to pat each other on the back over and over again. I bet once this all shakes out we will find some people who will have to answer for their actions and I hope it is soon.
Now here is what was actually posted after one of the moderators edited it:
“This is in response to the file that Mrs. Cara Campbell posted on this site with all the email correspondences she had between Peter and Lara Lee. I do not appreciate you accusing me of being offensive
and personally attacking people on the VOWS website!
THIS POST WAS MODERATORED BY A1BADAPPLE_2005. AS A MODERATOR I WILL NOT ALLOW ANYONE TO POST INFORMATION ABOUT ATTACKING ANYONE ELSE PERIOD. ALSO THIS SITE IS FOR RESIDENTS OF THE VILLIAGES OF WOODLAND SPRINGS ONLY. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEM EMAIL ME DIRECTLY AND AS ALWAYS THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT.”
Well, I did contact this moderator via email inquiring for an explanation of his editing. Here is the response that I received:
kmt4573
I have reread the entire post. Cara was stating opinion about how she thinks or feels. You can not make everything said a personal attack. Quite frankly your attitude about the entire post seems very hostile. The very thing that we and many others are against not only from this Yahoo group but the VOWS website as well. You make the statement they do not know you, then it can not be a personal attack.
May I suggest if you have a problem with someone please address it to them directly. Cara is a great person and this issue probably can be cleared up with just talking with her. The comment about being a VOWS resident will apply to every post I have to Moderate.
Now, I have not sent any further reply to this moderator as of yet, although his reply makes no sense to me for the following reasons:
1. “Cara was stating opinion about how she thinks or feels.” By stating her opinion and how she thinks or feels in her statement in which she named me in particular by name, that is what was offensive and attacking me as a person. Voicing thoughts can also be offensive and personal attacks, even if it is just her opinion of how she thinks…
2. “You can not make everything said a personal attack.” I wasn’t making everything she said a personal attack – only the 2 items that I specified in my original posting.
3. “Quite frankly your attitude about the entire post seems very hostile.” I was not hostile then, nor am I now – I was simply defending myself, the Queens and asking her to refrain from making any further false accusations. Also, does this moderator realize that typing in all capitals is considered yelling, and that I consider a bit of a hostile attitude.
4. “You make the statement they do not know you, then it can not be a personal attack.” You do not need to know someone personally to attack them or their nature. All the reporters in the world who write articles about stars and make up stories about them, do you think they personally know these stars?? No, but it still is a personal attack on that individual, as were Cara’s statements about me as they were attacking me as a person and my nature.
5. “May I suggest if you have a problem with someone please address it to them directly.” Why is this advice being given to me?? Shouldn’t it have gone to Cara first? She has never come to me with the apparent problem she has towards me…Was her posting edited as much as mine? No, her’s was not edited at all, yet, in my opinion, is much more hostile and is full of false accusations.
Again, I apologize for posting a small novel, but I wanted to post my opinions, thoughts and feelings on a VOWS site that is not “totally censored” and people are able to speak openly (with reasonable moderation). Even though I am only voicing my opinions here just as (to quote the Yahoo moderator again) “Cara was stating opinion about how she thinks or feels” I am pretty confident that this posting would be thoroughly edited if submitted to be posted on the Yahoo site considering it has much more information in it than the first one.
If you sat and read through this whole schpeel (is that how that’s spelled???), I hope I didn’t totally bore you, but I do thank you for listening to me with, hopefully, an open and fair mind.